
Background
Kanyadaan — literally the giving of the daughter — is the central act of the classical Hindu marriage rite, and its literal reading has been argued over for a very long time, inside the tradition as well as outside it. The word contains daan, gift, and the difficulty is exactly there: a person is not property to be transferred.
The Mahabharat is not a comfortable text on this. Draupadi is staked at dice by a husband who believes he has standing to stake her, and the assembly cannot agree whether he did. The epic stages the question rather than resolving it.